A Fling. What Makes It Happen & How To Stop It.

“For example; you Stella,” said the man of God as he pointed at one of his members in the congregation. His sermons are usually powerful. The congregation always sits attentively listening to every word this charismatic preacher has to say. They nod where they feel the point is valid and there is always an occasional … Continue reading A Fling. What Makes It Happen & How To Stop It.

The Major Aspects Making A Relationship; (pt. 5) The Vibe.

Concluding what I call The Five Major Aspects That Make Relationships work, carrying on from last year, I would like to end with the Vibe. I think this is one that holds everything else together. We’re all built differently. Everyone has different energy levels especially when it comes to dealing with other people & it … Continue reading The Major Aspects Making A Relationship; (pt. 5) The Vibe.

Dear Girl, Date For You, Not For The World

Once upon a time, boy set out to find a girl. He knew exactly what qualities he wanted in ‘the one’. A few months rolled by and he found her. She was great and they picked up like best friends should. In his modesty, she loved him because he made her feel exactly how she … Continue reading Dear Girl, Date For You, Not For The World

I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.

To the "As long as you're happy" brigade, I hope when your daughter brings you such a kind of man, you won't proudly mind ushering him into the family & showing him off to your people as the man your daughter is settling with without questioning her health, sanity, social & financial security. However, much … Continue reading I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.