It is not rare that you’ve met someone who (usually men) is crumbling to the pressure of formalizing a relationship. Formalizing a relationship includes a man visiting his woman’s family to present himself as the one taking their daughter, asking for their blessings, and usually give the date on which they’ll formalize everything (wedding). Many … Continue reading Formalizing That Relationship? What If You Took Your Time?
Some ideologies have kept some people in certain unpleasant situations because they've refused to bend & adjust to the changing times. To the times that now everyone is highly responsible for their happiness. Other people coming in are just complimentary. Ideologies like "men must always provide" have kept many females in single mother situations or … Continue reading Complement Each Other. Part 2 (Women & Money)
If there is no one in our circles who criticizes us for some of the moves we make then we definitely need a new set of friends or family. Sometimes we tend to keep silent when our friends are going astray just because we want to keep the friendship as we fear the other person … Continue reading What Type Of Friends We Really Need
Aunt Harriet (RIP) Is it possible to lose a parent in parts? If it is then I just did. It’s part one. (June 14, 2021) I was born to a young couple that barely had any idea of parenting. When things got heated for them, they ‘left’ me at my paternal grandmother’s home. A housewife … Continue reading To The Woman Who Mothered A Kingdom.
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