There is a hustle of finding a marriage partner. After concluding that the two of you are what y'all been looking for in a marriage partner, then there's the external acceptance phase & trust me, it is a dread. A very tense moment because you do not know what to expect from your people or … Continue reading Of Family & Your Marriage Partner.
To the "As long as you're happy" brigade, I hope when your daughter brings you such a kind of man, you won't proudly mind ushering him into the family & showing him off to your people as the man your daughter is settling with without questioning her health, sanity, social & financial security. However, much … Continue reading I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.
It is not rare that you’ve met someone who (usually men) is crumbling to the pressure of formalizing a relationship. Formalizing a relationship includes a man visiting his woman’s family to present himself as the one taking their daughter, asking for their blessings, and usually give the date on which they’ll formalize everything (wedding). Many … Continue reading Formalizing That Relationship? What If You Took Your Time?
Some ideologies have kept some people in certain unpleasant situations because they've refused to bend & adjust to the changing times. To the times that now everyone is highly responsible for their happiness. Other people coming in are just complimentary. Ideologies like "men must always provide" have kept many females in single mother situations or … Continue reading Complement Each Other. Part 2 (Women & Money)
If there is no one in our circles who criticizes us for some of the moves we make then we definitely need a new set of friends or family. Sometimes we tend to keep silent when our friends are going astray just because we want to keep the friendship as we fear the other person … Continue reading What Type Of Friends We Really Need
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