Dear Girl, Date For You, Not For The World

Once upon a time, boy set out to find a girl. He knew exactly what qualities he wanted in ‘the one’. A few months rolled by and he found her. She was great and they picked up like best friends should. In his modesty, she loved him because he made her feel exactly how she … Continue reading Dear Girl, Date For You, Not For The World

I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.

To the "As long as you're happy" brigade, I hope when your daughter brings you such a kind of man, you won't proudly mind ushering him into the family & showing him off to your people as the man your daughter is settling with without questioning her health, sanity, social & financial security. However, much … Continue reading I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.

Why girls love bad boys

Have you ever seen this ‘holier-than-though girl’, the kind that wears free fall floral dresses, with flowers in her hair and pump shoes? The kind that holds their books at their chest & drinks only soda, water, or juice? Those who make you think that the moment you talk sex to her she’ll run to … Continue reading Why girls love bad boys

Don’t Make Her A Single Mother

This is the women's month and Women's Day is just around the corner so I found it wise to send them this love letter... and to the men too. This is all about us...and it children. A woman loved a man. She loved him hard and he played the part. Her dreams were coming true. … Continue reading Don’t Make Her A Single Mother

On Provision In A Relationship

It is always a heated topic between both genders concerning money & how it should be handled. In many societies & relationships, the woman expects the man to foot everything financial. & so in most cases, one of the leading causes of relationship failures is financial understanding (or the lack of it) –provide what. Views … Continue reading On Provision In A Relationship