Let Them Go…If You Love Them

Happily, ever after, is a great myth. It is actually said that a relationship that has no issues to fight about is a false. Something underlying must be wrong with the couple. Normal people can’t just be agreeing about everything & anything & all that’s because we’re both different & these differences have to cause … Continue reading Let Them Go…If You Love Them

On Provision In A Relationship, Pt. 2 (Complementarity)

Some ideologies have kept some people in certain unpleasant situations because they've refused to bend & adjust to the changing times. To the times that now everyone is highly responsible for their happiness. Other people coming in are just complimentary. Ideologies like "men must always provide" have kept many females in single mother situations or … Continue reading On Provision In A Relationship, Pt. 2 (Complementarity)

Fragile Is Love

Sometimes if not most times, love is like rough terrain. It is rugged, full of humps and ditches or a road with steep & sharp corners, so tight they should be called blind spots. Don’t forget the red flags. If love is the sea, it is rough with waves, some so huge, they are tsunamis. … Continue reading Fragile Is Love

I Wanna Move On

I wanna move on & stay away from you. It's not something that I thought I’ll ever want to do but now it’s what I am left to do. I got to. I thought I was your best friend but didn't know we were two. Your number one but it turned out I wasn’t your … Continue reading I Wanna Move On

I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.

To the "As long as you're happy" brigade, I hope when your daughter brings you such a kind of man, you won't proudly mind ushering him into the family & showing him off to your people as the man your daughter is settling with without questioning her health, sanity, social & financial security. However, much … Continue reading I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.