It is not rare that you’ve met someone who (usually men) is crumbling to the pressure of formalizing a relationship. Formalizing a relationship includes a man visiting his woman’s family to present himself as the one taking their daughter, asking for their blessings, and usually give the date on which they’ll formalize everything (wedding). Many … Continue reading Formalizing That Relationship? What If You Took Your Time?
I would like to assume that by now, everyone knows who a slayer is. Particularly, a slay queen. But for a few of those who have been living in the days of Nebuchadnezzar, slayers are the latest kind of people who are living life in the fast lane. They walk around with the coolest gadgets, … Continue reading Why Society Loves To Hate Slay Queens. Literary.
Being in love is one thing. You can exchange gifts, hangout, text, smash, post about each other and call at any time but the realist of your relationship is when things start going down south and life shifts from being that soft, bed of roses to a world war of hearts. When people start intruding … Continue reading The Realist of Your Relationship
In a packed but quiet church, the guests all sat looking immaculately spick and span. The groom stood facing the altar on which stood the clergy, eagerly waiting to join the two love birds to eternity. Matrimony. As the organist played the piano, it felt like the heavens were going to come down today. It … Continue reading The Perfect Wedding
Marriage is one of the most interesting aspects of a relationship. I mean, the final confirmation that that person is now your personal person legally & when you bring in child bearing it even becomes more important, dramatic, critical & complicated. A life line for the family, clan, tribe, country, humanity. A battle of live … Continue reading Following The Crowd. A Disappointment To Self-Worth (Family Edition)