To the "As long as you're happy" brigade, I hope when your daughter brings you such a kind of man, you won't proudly mind ushering him into the family & showing him off to your people as the man your daughter is settling with without questioning her health, sanity, social & financial security. However, much … Continue reading I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.￼
It is not rare that you’ve met someone who (usually men) is crumbling to the pressure of formalizing a relationship. Formalizing a relationship includes a man visiting his woman’s family to present himself as the one taking their daughter, asking for their blessings, and usually give the date on which they’ll formalize everything (wedding). Many … Continue reading Formalizing That Relationship? What If You Took Your Time?
Some ideologies have kept some people in certain unpleasant situations because they've refused to bend & adjust to the changing times. To the times that now everyone is highly responsible for their happiness. Other people coming in are just complimentary. Ideologies like "men must always provide" have kept many females in single mother situations or … Continue reading Complement Each Other. Part 2 (Women & Money)
Aunt Harriet (RIP) Is it possible to lose a parent in parts? If it is then I just did. It’s part one. (June 14, 2021) I was born to a young couple that barely had any idea of parenting. When things got heated for them, they ‘left’ me at my paternal grandmother’s home. A housewife … Continue reading To The Woman Who Mothered A Kingdom.
The harsh reality of life that is affecting African countries is despicable. We have a very large youthful generation that is uncertain of their future. Job scarcity, poor service delivery & resource distribution all mainly escalated by our poor African leaders. This has forced many youths to look to the vibrant Middle East as their … Continue reading Day 14 of The Afrobloggers #Winterabc2021. Reasons Why Many People Who Go To Arabia Hardly Ever Survive The Streets When They Return.