Patience Pays

Our lives have a different timing. Much as there’s a common time to do some things, there’s no law that supports that we should force things to happen. Our lives are different & it doesn’t soften things up when we try to live it according to how every other person lives theirs. We cannot fail … Continue reading Patience Pays

On Provision In A Relationship, Pt. 2 (Complementarity)

Some ideologies have kept some people in certain unpleasant situations because they've refused to bend & adjust to the changing times. To the times that now everyone is highly responsible for their happiness. Other people coming in are just complimentary. Ideologies like "men must always provide" have kept many females in single mother situations or … Continue reading On Provision In A Relationship, Pt. 2 (Complementarity)

It Must Have Been Love

When I saw you first & sought you out.When I knew your flaws & ignored them. Never used them against you. For I was looking at the bigger picture. Of course, that’s of me & you.I’d looked into my future & placed you there. For what is eternal love if I only wanted to live … Continue reading It Must Have Been Love

I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.

To the "As long as you're happy" brigade, I hope when your daughter brings you such a kind of man, you won't proudly mind ushering him into the family & showing him off to your people as the man your daughter is settling with without questioning her health, sanity, social & financial security. However, much … Continue reading I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.

Complement Each Other. Part 2 (Women & Money)

Some ideologies have kept some people in certain unpleasant situations because they've refused to bend & adjust to the changing times. To the times that now everyone is highly responsible for their happiness. Other people coming in are just complimentary. Ideologies like "men must always provide" have kept many females in single mother situations or … Continue reading Complement Each Other. Part 2 (Women & Money)