“For example; you Stella,” said the man of God as he pointed at one of his members in the congregation. His sermons are usually powerful. The congregation always sits attentively listening to every word this charismatic preacher has to say. They nod where they feel the point is valid and there is always an occasional … Continue reading A Fling. What Makes It Happen & How To Stop It.
Concluding what I call The Five Major Aspects That Make Relationships work, carrying on from last year, I would like to end with the Vibe. I think this is one that holds everything else together. We’re all built differently. Everyone has different energy levels especially when it comes to dealing with other people & it … Continue reading The Major Aspects Making A Relationship; (pt. 5) The Vibe.
Sex is one of the most controversial subjects these days. A lot of caution has to be taken about it otherwise one would end up on the wrong side of the law... & poverty as endorsements, jobs & social respect can be taken away in just a second once news about your sexual behavior turns … Continue reading The Major Aspects Making A Relationship;(pt. 4) Sex.
Our lives have a different timing. Much as there’s a common time to do some things, there’s no law that supports that we should force things to happen. Our lives are different & it doesn’t soften things up when we try to live it according to how every other person lives theirs. We cannot fail … Continue reading Patience Pays
Some ideologies have kept some people in certain unpleasant situations because they've refused to bend & adjust to the changing times. To the times that now everyone is highly responsible for their happiness. Other people coming in are just complimentary. Ideologies like "men must always provide" have kept many females in single mother situations or … Continue reading On Provision In A Relationship, Pt. 2 (Complementarity)
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