“For example; you Stella,” said the man of God as he pointed at one of his members in the congregation. His sermons are usually powerful. The congregation always sits attentively listening to every word this charismatic preacher has to say. They nod where they feel the point is valid and there is always an occasional … Continue reading A Fling. What Makes It Happen & How To Stop It.
I remember when we said we loved each other. We promised. Like how teenagers do. So full of life. Now I miss you. No, I missed you from the time that we had to let each other go. I miss us & what we ought to be & what we were standing for. I miss … Continue reading Toli Wa Kitalo Nga Bw’olowoza. (You’re Not As Great As You Think)
Concluding what I call The Five Major Aspects That Make Relationships work, carrying on from last year, I would like to end with the Vibe. I think this is one that holds everything else together. We’re all built differently. Everyone has different energy levels especially when it comes to dealing with other people & it … Continue reading The Major Aspects Making A Relationship; (pt. 5) The Vibe.
Sex is one of the most controversial subjects these days. A lot of caution has to be taken about it otherwise one would end up on the wrong side of the law... & poverty as endorsements, jobs & social respect can be taken away in just a second once news about your sexual behavior turns … Continue reading The Major Aspects Making A Relationship;(pt. 4) Sex.
Welcome to yet another part of; the major aspects making relationships. Key issues that if ignored by a couple, then they’re bound to fail. The first one I did was about ideologies, opinions, and decisions making. That the difference in a couple's ideological makeup can destabilize the whole structure. Then I went about the money … Continue reading The Major Aspects Making A Relationship; (pt. 3) Religion.
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