The love was there & it was real. Each one loved with how the other made them feel. No insecurities. But then it dropped, not because of one's insensitivity but because of the terror from the past that never lost connectivity. Unburied demons. Now they're strangers with divergent reasonings. One blaming the other out of … Continue reading Love, A Complex Feeling.
Some ideologies have kept some people in certain unpleasant situations because they've refused to bend & adjust to the changing times. To the times that now everyone is highly responsible for their happiness. Other people coming in are just complimentary. Ideologies like "men must always provide" have kept many females in single mother situations or … Continue reading On Provision In A Relationship, Pt. 2 (Complementarity)
Happily, ever after, is a great myth. It is actually said that a relationship that has no issues to fight about is a false. Something underlying must be wrong with the couple. Normal people can’t just be agreeing about everything & anything & all that’s because we’re both different & these differences have to cause … Continue reading Let Them Go…If You Love Them
When I saw you first & sought you out.When I knew your flaws & ignored them. Never used them against you. For I was looking at the bigger picture. Of course, that’s of me & you.I’d looked into my future & placed you there. For what is eternal love if I only wanted to live … Continue reading It Must Have Been Love￼
It has always led to a cocktail (mostly negative) of public reactions whenever it comes out that a young man has, of all things, wedded an older woman in Africa. In fact, it is considered the other way round. That the woman has wedded the man. It has always been a taboo especially by the … Continue reading Is Age Just A Number?