Fragile Is Love

Sometimes if not most times, love is like rough terrain. It is rugged, full of humps and ditches or a road with steep & sharp corners, so tight they should be called blind spots. Don’t forget the red flags. If love is the sea, it is rough with waves, some so huge, they are tsunamis. … Continue reading Fragile Is Love

I Wanna Move On

I wanna move on & stay away from you. It's not something that I thought I’ll ever want to do but now it’s what I am left to do. I got to. I thought I was your best friend but didn't know we were two. Your number one but it turned out I wasn’t your … Continue reading I Wanna Move On

I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.

To the "As long as you're happy" brigade, I hope when your daughter brings you such a kind of man, you won't proudly mind ushering him into the family & showing him off to your people as the man your daughter is settling with without questioning her health, sanity, social & financial security. However, much … Continue reading I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.

Formalizing That Relationship? What If You Took Your Time?

It is not rare that you’ve met someone who (usually men) is crumbling to the pressure of formalizing a relationship. Formalizing a relationship includes a man visiting his woman’s family to present himself as the one taking their daughter, asking for their blessings, and usually give the date on which they’ll formalize everything (wedding). Many … Continue reading Formalizing That Relationship? What If You Took Your Time?