Love, A Complex Feeling.

The love was there & it was real. Each one loved with how the other made them feel. No insecurities.  But then it dropped, not because of one's insensitivity but because of the terror from the past that never lost connectivity. Unburied demons.  Now they're strangers with divergent reasonings. One blaming the other out of … Continue reading Love, A Complex Feeling.

On Provision In A Relationship, Pt. 2 (Complementarity)

Some ideologies have kept some people in certain unpleasant situations because they've refused to bend & adjust to the changing times. To the times that now everyone is highly responsible for their happiness. Other people coming in are just complimentary. Ideologies like "men must always provide" have kept many females in single mother situations or … Continue reading On Provision In A Relationship, Pt. 2 (Complementarity)

Is Age Just A Number?

It has always led to a cocktail (mostly negative) of public reactions whenever it comes out that a young man has, of all things, wedded an older woman in Africa. In fact, it is considered the other way round. That the woman has wedded the man. It has always been a taboo especially by the … Continue reading Is Age Just A Number?

In Love I Have Fallen

…with a non-royal but yet a princess. Charming imperfections, incredible beauty & breathtaking aura. With intelligence that excites me. Her wit ignites me. Her laugh cracks me. Her voice is my music. She blows me away like a hilltop waft. Kisses my face like the sea to the beach & chills my heat like a … Continue reading In Love I Have Fallen

I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.

To the "As long as you're happy" brigade, I hope when your daughter brings you such a kind of man, you won't proudly mind ushering him into the family & showing him off to your people as the man your daughter is settling with without questioning her health, sanity, social & financial security. However, much … Continue reading I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.