Love, A Complex Feeling.

The love was there & it was real. Each one loved with how the other made them feel. No insecurities.  But then it dropped, not because of one's insensitivity but because of the terror from the past that never lost connectivity. Unburied demons.  Now they're strangers with divergent reasonings. One blaming the other out of …

Let Them Go…If You Love Them

Happily, ever after, is a great myth. It is actually said that a relationship that has no issues to fight about is a false. Something underlying must be wrong with the couple. Normal people can’t just be agreeing about everything & anything & all that’s because we’re both different & these differences have to cause …

On Provision In A Relationship, Pt. 2 (Complementarity)

Some ideologies have kept some people in certain unpleasant situations because they've refused to bend & adjust to the changing times. To the times that now everyone is highly responsible for their happiness. Other people coming in are just complimentary. Ideologies like "men must always provide" have kept many females in single mother situations or …

Of Family & Your Marriage Partner.

There is a hustle of finding a marriage partner. After concluding that the two of you are what y'all been looking for in a marriage partner, then there's the external acceptance phase & trust me, it is a dread. A very tense moment because you do not know what to expect from your people or …

Of Bad Dates; The Mobile Phone

An cartoon image of a girl who is being rude to her date by being obsessed with taking selfies. Dates are supposed to be amazing times usually spent with someone of importance to you (that’s why they’re commonly held by lovers or those with the prospect of becoming one) I hold this view because I …