Formalizing That Relationship? What If You Took Your Time?

It is not rare that you’ve met someone who (usually men) is crumbling to the pressure of formalizing a relationship. Formalizing a relationship includes a man visiting his woman’s family to present himself as the one taking their daughter, asking for their blessings, and usually give the date on which they’ll formalize everything (wedding). Many … Continue reading Formalizing That Relationship? What If You Took Your Time?

Complement Each Other. Part 2 (Women & Money)

Some ideologies have kept some people in certain unpleasant situations because they've refused to bend & adjust to the changing times. To the times that now everyone is highly responsible for their happiness. Other people coming in are just complimentary. Ideologies like "men must always provide" have kept many females in single mother situations or … Continue reading Complement Each Other. Part 2 (Women & Money)

To The Woman Who Mothered A Kingdom.

Aunt Harriet (RIP) Is it possible to lose a parent in parts? If it is then I just did. It’s part one. (June 14, 2021) I was born to a young couple that barely had any idea of parenting. When things got heated for them, they ‘left’ me at my paternal grandmother’s home. A housewife … Continue reading To The Woman Who Mothered A Kingdom.

Of Good Character, Rashida’s Qualities…Of A Perfect Partner

Sometime in 2020, during one of those (#MeToo campaigns), There was a social media topic about people’s characters. Commonly, such topics involve qualities one looks out for in a partner. Amongst a number of comments on a certain post I can’t seem to find anymore was a comment by Rashida Namulondo, a poet and actress. … Continue reading Of Good Character, Rashida’s Qualities…Of A Perfect Partner

Don’t Make Her A Single Mother

This is the women's month and Women's Day is just around the corner so I found it wise to send them this love letter... and to the men too. This is all about us...and it children. A woman loved a man. She loved him hard and he played the part. Her dreams were coming true. … Continue reading Don’t Make Her A Single Mother