Some ideologies have kept some people in certain unpleasant situations because they've refused to bend & adjust to the changing times. To the times that now everyone is highly responsible for their happiness. Other people coming in are just complimentary. Ideologies like "men must always provide" have kept many females in single mother situations or … Continue reading On Provision In A Relationship, Pt. 2 (Complementarity)
It has always led to a cocktail (mostly negative) of public reactions whenever it comes out that a young man has, of all things, wedded an older woman in Africa. In fact, it is considered the other way round. That the woman has wedded the man. It has always been a taboo especially by the … Continue reading Is Age Just A Number?
Once upon a time, boy set out to find a girl. He knew exactly what qualities he wanted in ‘the one’. A few months rolled by and he found her. She was great and they picked up like best friends should. In his modesty, she loved him because he made her feel exactly how she … Continue reading Dear Girl, Date For You, Not For The World￼
To the "As long as you're happy" brigade, I hope when your daughter brings you such a kind of man, you won't proudly mind ushering him into the family & showing him off to your people as the man your daughter is settling with without questioning her health, sanity, social & financial security. However, much … Continue reading I Have A Right To Decide For My Daughter What I Feel Is Right.￼
It is not rare that you’ve met someone who (usually men) is crumbling to the pressure of formalizing a relationship. Formalizing a relationship includes a man visiting his woman’s family to present himself as the one taking their daughter, asking for their blessings, and usually give the date on which they’ll formalize everything (wedding). Many … Continue reading Formalizing That Relationship? What If You Took Your Time?